Monday, July 8, 2024

Talking about sex

Intercourse is taboo, uncomfortable subject when discussing important issues; what students don't know can hurt them

Let's admit it, talking about sex can make us uncomfortable.

From the often painfully awkward conversations with parents about where babies come from to the class most of us had in high school, talking openly about sex can make us squeamish.

Despite living in a more explicit society, in which we hear about sex everyday from television and music, sex is still a taboo topic — something many people, unfortunately, can't seem to talk about.

If there ever was an opportune time to talk about sex, Healthy Sexuality Week, which started Monday, would be it. Olin Health Center has offered several events for students to talk about the different aspects of sex and sexuality this week.

But this week is clearly not the only time Olin tries to educate students about sex.

From the bowls of condoms in Olin waiting rooms and provided by residence hall mentors, to the "In Your Face Reality Troupe" and pamphlets about sex and abstinence, the information about sex is out there.

And many students need it.

According to the MSU Student Health Assessment: Spring 2004, out of 1,335 students surveyed, only 2.4 percent reported using a condom during oral sex, and 22.3 percent of those who had vaginal sex (in the previous month when the study was conducted) said they or their partner always used a condom.

Despite knowing the dangers of having sex without protection, many are still not making good choices about sex. Which means they might need the information Olin provides.

Everyone had different experiences with sex education before coming to MSU.

For some, school classes about sex were descriptive, especially about what kinds of protection are available to protect against sexually transmitted infections. Others gave the facts and warned that abstinence is the only way to prevent pregnancy and diseases.

Whatever kind of teaching students received in high school, everything changes when they come to college.

That's why it's important to get the information you need, no matter what choice you make about sex and sexual activities.

Olin offers condoms, testing and counseling for sexually transmitted diseases and HIV.

Beyond that, it provides counseling about sex and sexual assault and offers information about contraceptives, including the Plan B emergency contraception.

For more information, call Olin Health Center at (517) 355-4510.

Although Healthy Sexuality Week is almost over, take the opportunity to learn a little bit more about your body, sex and how to keep yourself safe, no matter what your choices.

The information is out there, its up to you to seek it and get informed.

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