I am writing in response to the editorial "Take notice" (SN 3/17). From my own personal experience, I know how hard it is to admit that one has an eating disorder. It was definitely a decision that I struggled with for quite some time, but is one that I am glad that I made. I also agree with the editorial that confronting someone who you think might need help is difficult and does take courage. It can make a life-changing difference in someone's life.
When I told my friends about my eating disorder at the end of my freshman year, I had confirmed what they thought. They told me that they were scared to confront me about it. I know that I can't change what is in the past, but sometimes I wonder if things would be different if my friends had said something.
Knowing what I do now, I understand why my friends were scared to confront me. Like the editorial stated, confronting a friend who might have an eating disorder is a delicate situation, and even if you don't know what to say or do, sometimes just being there or supporting them can be a huge help.
Tiffany Titus
learning, technology and culture graduate student